So this has been quite the year of reflection for me.

I had a huge promotion at work. It came after moving up the ladder during my eight years at my job. During that time, I had a new baby, moved at least three times, became a medical expert and She-Warrior going through my then teenage daughters trials with brain cancer and it’s treatment.

I’ve experienced change. Those major life changes that can make or break a person. Changes that make you look around and see where you are and who’s by your side.

I allowed my emotions to be released during this year….after a few years of being very numb so that I could be very strong.

I reconnected with old friends. Some have passed away. My circle increased and so did my support system.

I learned the importance of planning and the realness of thinking and speaking things into existence. I’ve finally found the desire to write again.

I’ve been saying that I would get married without a potential mate in mind. To my surprise, people started showing up. That also made me reflect on what I really wanted. Who I really am. What I really need (there is a difference between what you want and what you need).

I realized that I am a whole person. Some people are a different person at work…different with certain people…they have different levels of spirituality based on the surrounding circumstances. I stopped compartmentalizing myself. I learned that I am whole. I am just me.

I learned that people listen. That people care.

I don’t need to make resolutions for the new year. 2014 is going to be wonderful. I’m on a path. I’ll keep walking it. I am writing my plan. I am working my plan. Great things are in store.